Heaviness in the heart of man maketh it stoop: but a good word maketh it glad – Proverbs 12:25
Unlike the explosive confrontations of former daytime talk shows such as Maury and Jerry Springer, the Bloom family’s much-needed conversation about the day that changed their lives unfolded through hugs and tears. Each member expressed the impact of Sam’s fall, thereby speaking honestly about guilt and resentment. The release of harbored emotions opened the door to forward movement and Sam’s decision to move past reluctance and pursue kayaking lessons. The instructor’s refusal to permit Sam to see herself as handicapped reshaped her passion for the water, eventually leading her to win multiple World Para Surfing Championships.
When you face a life-altering trial, being open with the people who love you unloads the heavy burdens that make the fight even harder. It’s not about ignoring the elephant in the room—your deep hurt and pain—but acknowledging it so you can begin moving beyond it.
Hopefully, the conversations over these last few days about not allowing events, no matter how severe, to defeat you have been beneficial. We should never stop fighting, no matter the challenge. Seeing ourselves through God’s eyes is the best starting point for recognizing that we’re loved and valued.