Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God – Ephesians 5:21
“Are you certain your mother wants to have a conversation with me?” Darren asked cautiously. “Yes,” Paula responded, “but don’t worry. She’s only going to stress your obligations when you become my husband the day after tomorrow, by pointing out several Scriptures, especially Ephesians 5:25 about a husband loving his wife as Jesus loved the church.” “Phew! The request sounded so serious. Had me scared there for a minute,” Darren said. “Definitely not. Now the discussion afterwards with my father, that’s another matter, since he plans to warn you about what will happen if you end up violating any of them. So be prepared for illustrations,” Paula advised.
Intended to offer humor, the opening parody is inspired by a conversation about relationships moving toward marriage and the dual obligations of both participants. It included the roles each spouse will have in ensuring their partnership is built on mutual respect, love, and equal commitment. However, the most essential element for a healthy marriage is God’s involvement in the sacred institution He established and provided guidance for—not just at the altar during vows, but every day thereafter.
It’s not required to have a conversation with a potential in-law to be reminded of their expectations for the treatment of their son or daughter. This discussion is found in God’s Word, and the best starting point is recognizing the importance of submission—to God and to each other.